What if you could transform your relationship in 1 to 3 days?

I know it sounds too good to be true, and here’s what I want you to know:

Relationships don’t have to be hard.

You just need to learn how to be in them.

 
 

At the Center for Soulful Relationships, in as little as 1 to 3 days, I can help you:

  • wake up to what you are doing that damages your relationships,

  • heal the blocks that have stood in the way of you experiencing the love you really want, and

  • learn the skills for maintaining a deeper, more meaningful connection with the one you love.

Since I know it seems a bit hard to believe, I want to share the story of Leena and Tim with you.

Tim is a hard working man who loves his wife, yet, he feels like he can’t do anything right…

Leena, Tim’s wife, is an over functioning, high performing bad-ass at work, who feels like she sucks at being a wife…

The love they share is palpable in the room, it’s in their eyes, it’s in their touch.

Also palpable in the room is their pain of not understanding how to support one another and not knowing how to connect…

…if only they could understand one another better,

…if only they didn’t get in the same misunderstanding that led them to feel disconnected and alone,

…if only they could learn how to turn towards one another and support each other better in their times of need.

By setting aside a few days to dig into their marriage and participate in a couples counseling intensive with me, Tim and Leena were able to:

  • See how they were contributing to the disconnection in their marriage,

  • Develop a deeper understanding of one another, and

  • Learn how to support one another in such a way that each of them felt loved and understood.

Through this process Leena and Tim had more awareness about themselves and each other, felt better understood, and were more intimately connected than they ever had been before.

Leena and Tim’s marriage was actually stronger by the end of our time together.

The cherry on top: their almost daily misunderstandings were reduced to only a few times a year, and they shared greater intimacy, connection, love and trust (including a better sex life, too!).

The same is possible for you.

If you’re ready to welcome this level of support for yourself and your relationship, too, then click the button below to schedule your complimentary initial consultation call with me. I look forward to connecting with you.

If you resonate with either Leena or Tim, or if you are…

…then the services I offer are meant for you.

If you’ve already done everything you know and you are looking for solutions that lead to lasting change, then reach out to me and discover how I can support you.

Schedule your complimentary initial consultation today.

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